SCRIPTURE READING: ROMANS 6:1–6
KEY VERSE: ROMANS 6:6
… knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him, that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves of sin.
Perhaps you have been hurt by someone you love. If you don’t deal with the problem early enough, there is a likelihood that some form of bitterness will sink roots deep within your spirit.
The consequences of an unforgiving spirit are severe. First, if you allow your heart to harden toward others, you can expect to suffer emotional bondage, especially as it relates to the source of your pain. Your joy and freedom in Christ will be limited because you have chosen to harbor resentment and derision. This can have a paralyzing effect throughout your life.
One of the worst effects of unforgiveness is that it erodes our fellowship with God. He provided the ultimate sacrifice for our sins and expects us to remember Christ’s death on the cross and graciously extend forgiveness to others, even when they don’t ask for it. There is no true rationalization for holding a grudge while also claiming to live in the shadow of the cross.
Unforgiveness also leads to broken relationships. The words “I’m sorry; please forgive me” are very difficult to utter. The words “I accept your apology, and I forgive you” also require humility and a heart and mind led by the Lord’s Spirit. When both parties approach a hardship in this manner, God can restore a relationship to even fuller love. Jesus took upon Himself the sin of the world, and we should demonstrate love and liberty as a result.
Dear heavenly Father, help me forgive and accept forgiveness. I want to demonstrate Your love to a needy world.
Stanley, C. F. (2006). Pathways to his presence (p. 41). Thomas Nelson Publishers.
