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The Problem with Personality Tests | The Log College

About a decade ago, I did a deep dive into Myers-Briggs types. A few years ago, it was Annie F. Downs recurring Enneagram Summer podcasts.[1] These assessments are like white collar emotional donuts. And the roots of these tests go deep. There are foundations.[2] People with PhDs. All kinds of books and conferences. Why not? Is there anything more fascinating to learn about than…you?

Personality tests have taken off in the past century because they provide a broad doctrinal foundation which secularism can build on top of. This doesn’t mean they’re bad. But we need to understand that a personality test isn’t merely an innocuous tool for fun conversations at your corporate retreat. It’s playing in the sandbox of the deepest mysteries of the universe—what is human nature, the source of evil, and the pathway to peace?

Personality tests trade on a lot of biblical truth but their analysis and answers fall short of the Bible’s vision of who you are and who you can be.

What Personality Tests Get Right

If you dive deep into a personality test, you can emerge with one of the most robust plans for self-actualization our secular world can come up with. It gives you a place to be and become—the two key needs in identity formation. This is a wonderful aim. You want to learn about yourself so that you can become a better version of yourself. You want to develop awareness of your limitations and blind spots, and lean-in to your natural strengths and giftings. 

Personality tests shine because of their ability to fill a yawning identity gap in today’s world—they affirm your givenness. In terms of the two major identity questions, “who am I?” and “who should I become?” our world fails to give satisfying answers to either one. Our world is most maddeningly vague, however, when it comes to supplying any definitive answer to who you are, in a fixed and stable sense. Is there anything you can know for certain about you?

Enter the personality test. Every personality test acknowledges shades of gray and imprecision, but its attraction is in its black and whiteness. For instance, you are an Enneagram 2 (The Helper), which means you are not Enneagram 8 (The Challenger).[3]

Each type comes with a synopsis, with strengths, weaknesses, personal growth plans, and even suggestions on which other types you should marry. Finally, you’re looking at something that tells you who you are. You’re not just a confused bundle of fears and desires—you are a certain type of person because that’s how you were designed. The “design” word is verboten (too religious), but the implication is everywhere. Personality tests spit out get declarative sentences of fact, not more open-ended questions asking you to speculate on who your feelings might lead you to be today?

Take the Myers-Briggs test for example. The four letter categories come from four categorical questions: your favorite world (extraversion/ introversion), how you process information (sensing/ intuition), how you make decisions (through thinking/ feeling), and how you structure your approach to the outside world (judging, perceiving).[4] The test forces participants into one category or the other by asking questions with only two options, designed to pick one preference to the exclusion of the other. You’re relieved to find a place where a binary is not only affirmed but required.

Personality tests also do well in recognizing the biblical root issue of pride, and how it manifests in recurring trouble spots. Your biggest strengths are also your biggest weaknesses. Fore example, if you’re a high D on the DISC- you’re going to be driven, but prone to be domineering. This leads to gentle suggestions for “growth and development.” People are more open to addressing their shortcomings when they see those as the flip side of their strengths.

What Personality Tests Get Wrong

The problem with personality tests is part of the heritage of our postmodern age. All the tests are militantly non-judgmental. You are driven towards a bland, milky, blanket affirmation of all people, everywhere, no matter what. When I look at myself: all of my foibles, weaknesses, strengths, flaws, sins, at my acts of love, hate, or selfishness—they simply stem from who I am as a person. It’s neither good or bad. I just am.

Jesus paints a different picture of human nature: “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” (Mt 12:35) Those sort of moral weighings—good and evil—sound like heresy within a personality-test-worldview.

This means the solution implied in personality test philosophy ends up in a very different place than the gospel. Personality tests imply that if only everyone could understand themselves and other people better, then everyone would naturally work towards self-improvement and harmony.

The Bible has less of a rosy outlook: “Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me” (Psalm 51:5). “All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all” (Isaiah 53:6). The Bible’s not talking about misunderstandings that happen because you haven’t learned the other person’s love language. There’s such a thing as sin. As selfishness. If you skip over pride and selfishness, and simply understand more about why someone acts, thinks, and prefers what he does, that will not create deeper respect for the person. It’ll often have the opposite effect.

Using personality tests as the primary lens for understanding people tends toward either pragmatic manipulation or typology-racism. Both errors play into our desire to simplify people into a panel of buttons and levers: “If I give my wife her love language of acts of service, she’ll give me my love language of words of affirmation.” Or, “I’m an Enneagram 5 Investigator, so that means I can play well with Enneagram 9 Peacemakers, but can’t stand those Enneagram 6 Loyalists.”

No matter how much test-makers protest that their design is to make you more receptive and compassionate towards others, there’s an intrinsic rigidity in the end result that calcifies pride and bias. (It’s ok to like and dislike who I do; I just need to learn to play the game better.) According to the Myers-Briggs Foundation, “People who are self-aware honor their preferences first and stretch to the others when appropriate to the situation (emphasis added).”

You should praise the Lord because you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). We should always be eager to learn more about ourselves and others, but do so with a healthy dose of humility. People are more than chess pieces whose lines of movement we need to memorize in order to play the game. We are marvelously complex. We’re created in God’s image, fallen, and need to be renewed into the image of Jesus (Ephesians 4:22-24). The Bible has far more to say about who people are and what they need than any test our world comes up with.

Justin Poythress (MDiv, Westminster Theological Seminary, PA) grew up in Philadelphia, and has since lived and worked in Nashville, Indy, Fort Myers, and now in Boise, where he is pastor and lives with his wife, Liz, and their daughters.


[1] https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7LVQLEH6SjsO2AhDmOsUzW

[2] https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/myers-briggs-overview/
https://www.everythingdisc.com/

[3] https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/

[4] https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/myers-briggs-overview/

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Loving Ourselves to Death: Self-Help and New Thought | Key Life

The Fundamental Flaw

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers, you cannot be successful or happy.”[i]

Reading this encouragement from a self-help book about the potential of my mind and positive thinking captivated me. It left me feeling nothing but power. It even included  Scripture references to this “power” within. So I knew it was legit. There was no denying this was God’s will for my life.

I couldn’t put the book down. I never knew that simply changing the way I thought would literally change the circumstances around me. Happiness, greatness, confidence, likability, assertiveness, wealth, romance, a fresh start, a positive perspective—there was a book or conference for that. But it wasn’t just my perspective that would change. No, my thoughts could change my reality. I was magical. There was definitely nothing suspicious about this. What a serotonin rush!

A rush that eventually crashed into this really inconvenient thing called reality.

It didn’t take long to realize that this “powerful thoughts” thing would require doing the work to be better. Eat better, think better, act better.

Just be better.

And this is how it gets you.

The inspiring quote at the beginning of this section is the first words you’ll read in Norman Vincent Peale’s tremendously popular self-help book, The Power of Positive Thinking. It’s one of the most successful self-help books ever sold in American history. It also happens to be one of the most popular New Thought books ever sold in American history.

Peale was a popular New Thought author and minister. His influence is just one of many New Thought sources that have influenced our culture’s views on positive thinking, self-reliance, following your truth, and, well, everything to do with yourself as the answer to your problems.

The theme is still the same: self. You’re the chosen hero. You’re not the problem. You’re the solution. The downsides to this message are many, including the huge barrier it builds to accepting the gospel. And tragically, those who follow the religion of self-improvement ultimately become a slave to its never-ending, works-based demands.

That’s the result of a fundamental flaw in how New Thought depicts humanity. Nearly every false idea today can be traced back to the belief that humanity is fundamentally good.[ii] This creates the illusion of rediscovering something deep within and awakening our divine potential. Some people can’t understand why they’d need a savior. I’m my own savior. I am enough!

New Thought began with healing, but it grew to promote personal prosperity and correct the “lie” that humans were inherently sinful. Humanity didn’t need to be told they were sinners. They needed to know about their goodness and inner divinity, the Christ within, and that they are already whole. They just need to realize it. Supposedly, the lies of the religious fundamentalists had been holding people back. This was nothing but fear-filled religious propaganda, keeping humans from reaching their true potential.


[i] Norman Vincent Peale, The Power of Positive Thinking (New York, Simon and Schuster: 2015), pg 1.

[ii] Natasha Crain, “Nearly every false idea today can be traced back to the belief that man is fundamentally good,” Facebook, April 25, 2023. https://tinyurl.com/ytc4e9wr.

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3 Powerful Ways to Stop Your Thoughts from Spiraling Out of Control

When your mind races with anxiety, fear, or doubt, you’re not powerless—you’re invited into a Spirit-led transformation.

3 Powerful Ways to Stop Your Thoughts from Spiraling Out of Control

British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher made a powerful statement regarding our thoughts: “Watch your thoughts for they become words. Watch your words for they become actions. Watch your actions for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become your character. And watch your character, for it becomes your destiny! What we think we become.” Training our thoughts is essential, and exploring how to move from negative patterns to believing God’s truths is life-changing.

MINDSET SHIFT: Training Your Thoughts to Follow the Spirit

My mind often feels like a high-speed freeway, racing with thoughts I can’t slow down. Will my kids be safe? What if I lose my job? How will I pay the bills? What if I fail the people counting on me?  Most of the things I worry about never happen, yet the anxious, fearful, and sometimes paralyzing thoughts keep coming. They multiply like rabbits, crowding out peace and clarityAnd I’ve learned something: managing these mental spirals takes more than willpower or positive thinking. It takes spiritual strength and a very intentional kind of action. 

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of what-ifs and worst-case scenarios, this isn’t just another article about “shifting your mindset.” It’s about discovering a deeper kind of renewal, the kind that calms your thoughts because it anchors your soul. 

Here are three practices that are helping me build both mental resilience and spiritual strength:

1. Renew my mind with truth that anchors, not just inspires.
2. Take my thoughts captive before they take me captive.
3. Yield to the Holy Spirit, who leads me out of fear and into freedom. 

When we apply these principles, those runaway thoughts don’t have to control us. Instead, they can become the starting point of a new pathway, one that leads toward peace, clarity, and the presence of God. 

The first step in disarming those negative thoughts is to renew my mind.

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The Problem with the Self-Help Industry

There are two colossal issues with the self-help industry. First, like mentioned above, it places the self at the center of the universe. In order to help self, one must place self first. Second, it only helps at the surface level and doesn’t get down to the most fundamental problem of humans: sin.

Self-help is a massive industry, and understandably so. Dynamic and charismatic speakers like Tony Robbins, Mel Robbins, and Simon Sinek are highly influential. Their teachings and opinions have invaded the top charts of books, podcasts, and more.

Why is that? They are meeting a felt need amongst the population. Self-help gurus are incredibly popular because people, to a certain extent, understand they need to have better habits, make better decisions, and change how they think. People do want to improve their lives—there’s no question about that.

But at what cost? At what level? Self-help teachings are only truly helpful to a certain degree. That is because they place the individual at the center of the story. You, according to the self-help industry, are the most important in your world. Be selfish, they say.

I sat through a self-help professional development seminar recently. And don’t get me wrong, a lot of the advice was helpful. So yes, indeed, some of the discussion does help . . . self. But during one part of the seminar, the speaker plainly said to be selfish when it comes to the most important person in your world: you. To be sure, this was in the context of explaining how you can’t take care of your family and others around you if you’re not taking care of yourself. I understand that. But the claim is simply erroneous. The intent is good (I think) but the solution is horrifically incorrect, let alone unbiblical. I can take care of myself as an image bearer of God without being number one in my life.

Kyle Strobel, in a video at TGC, said this regarding the self-help industry:

The second we give ourselves to self-help, we are capitulating to a culture that assumes that self is centered, and now I just give myself to things to better myself, to identify myself. We really need to hear Jesus here, that if you try to save your life, you lose it….If you want to discover yourself, you discover yourself in Christ. You don’t somehow create a self. You don’t establish a self. You discover it in him.

The deepest problem with the self-help industry is it places you, the consumer, at the center. That is simply antithetical to biblical teachings. Where the self-help industry says Think about yourself first, Jesus tells us to Think of others before yourself.

This quote from Mel Robbins is a great example of the nonsense you might read:

You don’t give yourself enough credit, you are a lot stronger than you think.

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December 30 | Goal Setting

scripture reading:  James 4:13–17  
key verse:  Proverbs 21:5  

The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty,
But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.

Many people will look back over the past year with a sense of accomplishment and hope. Others may have regrets and wish they had tackled life differently. Learning to set goals for your life is an excellent way to build encouragement into your daily routine, especially when you set reasonable goals that you can achieve without fear of failure.

Always begin the goal–setting process with prayer. Ask the Lord to show you specific areas in your life that will benefit from this type of organization. Making a list of potential growth spots will help you see the overall context of your life. Ask yourself, What would I like to accomplish in this certain area during the next year?

Make a promise to yourself that you will be open to the will of God. Allow Him to alter your goals when necessary.

Remember, He is perfectly in tune with your life and knows your strengths and weaknesses. Avoid becoming overzealous in the goal–setting process. Many who do often end up discouraged when goals are unreached. Set goals that stretch your faith but are also attainable in nature.

God is a natural goal setter. Throughout Scripture, He encouraged men and women to achieve the goals He placed before them. God wants you to achieve His best in life; allow Him to guide you as you set goals for the future.

Heavenly Father, thank You for all You have accomplished in and through me during the past year. As I look ahead to the future, reveal Your goals and objectives for my life. I want to fulfill Your plan.1


1  Stanley, C. F. (1998). Enter His gates: a daily devotional. Thomas Nelson Publishers.

What Is a Christian Mindset?

Jesus spoke about how our mindset is connected to who we are in His Sermon on the Mount (Matt. 5–7). He explained, for example, how Old Testament commandments relate to who we are inside. He said that anyone who even looks at a woman with lust commits adultery in his heart (Matt. 5:28). That’s because sin is a question of our mindset—not simply of what we do externally. He summarized by saying, “You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect” (v. 48).

What is a mindset? It’s not a term we use often. The Bible describes Christians as being people who pursue transformation through the renewal of their mind (Rom. 12:2). This means that the position, orientation, or very framework of our mind has shifted—it’s been “set” by the Spirit of God. That doesn’t mean that our mind is static, but the seed of the Word has been permanently planted, and our whole life of faith springs forth from that seed (Rom. 10:17James 1:21).

It reminds me of playing baseball when I was little. Baseball was the first sport I learned to play. Once I picked up a bat and learned how to throw a ball, I interpreted every other sport I played through the experience of playing baseball. When I played golf, I knew something of how to swing a club. When I played soccer, I knew what it meant to play offense or defense. I brought a baseball mindset to every sport that I played.

In some ways, the term worldview describes what a mindset is, but that term can be misleading. Sometimes people say, “Well, that’s just your view.” What they mean is that our views don’t need to accord with any objective truth. All that exists is power, and whoever can yell the loudest gets to impose his view of the world on others. But that’s a cynical way of viewing the world. It would mean that power is always our sole motivation, and all truth is relative. But that doesn’t make sense. People are often motivated by other things besides power. And, moreover, you can’t claim that all truth is relative, because that’s an objective truth claim. It’s contradictory.

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